Stylist Tshepi Vundla answers our mom questions_1


We caught up with Stylist, Social Media Influencer and boy mom Tshepi Vundla and she answers a few questions about her parenting journey as she raises her son Siba.

Being a mom is …. 

The most rewarding experience. You grow & learn daily. 
The last time I gagged because of my kid was when he …

had a runny tummy whilst we were out. I only realized when Jay picked him up and the poo was on Jay’s arm too

The last time I cried as a mom my son…

gave me a big hug, kiss and told me he loved me
 
My advice to other moms would be…

take your time, do what makes you & your baby happy & comfortable.
 
My favourite part about being a mom is…

his excitement when I come home, the running towards me & him calling out for me.
 
The biggest challenge is…

making sure I’m not making mistakes
 
My biggest mom guilt is when…

I fuss about him being dirty. I should let him be a child.
 
My success as a parent is measured by…

his smile & laughter
 
The most important affirmation I say to my son is…

you are strong, you are brave, you are kind, you are special & you are smart

The most important behaviour/attitude I mirror for my child is…

manners; always remembering to say thank you & please
 
My work-life balance as a working mom is…

hard but I have to make it work. I have a great support system that helps me balance it.
 
I hate when other moms…

compare their kids to mine. It’s not a competition, kids are individuals

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